I had a conversation recently with a good friend about how turned on we are by men who are really smart. Intelligence is such a major turn on for me. (So is a bit of arrogance, tbh). 

Back in 2012, the bf (before he was the bf) and I were sitting on my couch talking about stuff. He mentioned the title of his dissertation, and I knew in that moment that I wanted him to be mine. I jumped on him and we started making out. 

We caught on fire from there.

The rest is history.