“I fucked up bad.” That’s how he started the call, and it brought back a flood of bad memories. 

My ex just called me crying because his health insurance got canceled for non-payment, and now they refuse to re-enroll him.He went on and on about his ADHD and how that keeps him from being organized and that’s why this happened and blah, blah, blah.

It’s always a fucking excuse with him. Nothing is ever his fault. And why is he calling me? He said he thought I might have ideas to help him out (wtf?) and (while crying) said, “I can’t get ahold of my mom because she’s at work?”

There is so much wrong with this…I don’t even know where to start.You are 36 fucking years old. Grow up. Grow up. Grow the fuck up. 

I know I should just tell him that, like actually say those words, but I just can’t bring myself to do it. I never want to purposefully make someone feel bad (or worse as the case may be). 

This is the sort of shit I used to always have to deal with. “Oh I forgot to do this and now *insert bad thing here*.”

Ugh.  Now my headache is even worse now. I had made some progress with it.