It depends upon who is doing the remembering, honestly, but a few ideas come to mind:
A fun, caring, sexy wife who kept life interesting up to the end.
A loving, nurturing (step) mother who didn’t fuck the kids up too much, but who was a lot of fun.
A badass, boss bitch who grabbed life by the balls.
A good, loving friend.
A fantastic attorney who made at least a small difference in the world.
Fabulous as fuck also works. 😂