I finally left the house!

I went out with Jen and had a fabulous time. It was just what I needed. I had too many Moscow Mules, but was able to fight off the headache.

We cute:

And she brought me a present!!

This pet bed from Aldi. Isn’t it the cutest???

Sansa is a fan.

I need to force myself to get out more. It’s good for my mental health. I need my friends now more than ever.

Thanks for a fabulous night, babe. ♥️

Thursday Things

It’s just…not fair. And that’s what I kept saying over and over as I fell asleep crying: it’s not fair, it’s not fair, it’s not fair…

I know all too well that life isn’t fair. I’m feeling better about things today. I accidentally drank too much. I’m a lightweight now, and need to be more careful.

But, even though I’m feeling better, I’m still sad about all of it. I need to let it roll off though, because we have shit going on today and I don’t have time to wallow.

Okay bye – it’s time for court.


Saturday Night Stuff

First of all, felt cute had to selfie:

I’m really digging the short hair. Oh and that lipstick? It’s a custom shade that I had made and I love it. It smells like roses, is in a polka dot case, and has my name on it!

Anyways…Then it was off to celebrate Nancy’s birthday. We all bought these Pub Passes, and ventured out to try new to us places. The pass entitled us to a free beer at each stop.

We randomly ran into two friends, Rob & Steph, at Wellspent, so they ended up joining us, which was fun. And my gorgeous gf and her man, the fabulous MVS, stopped by for a drink, as well.

It was a good night, but I was hungover before I even left for home, and I didn’t even drink that much. My old, cancery ass cannot party like I used to.

adventures in south city

We had a good time with our friends last night. It was a much needed distraction. I had lots of weed and tequila, which made my world all spinny, but it was worth it. I’m not even feeling hungover.

We took Bizzy with us, and he had a fun time, too. New areas to explore; fresh places to pee. Lol.

I wish I had remembered to get a pic of the four of us. Next time.

So about last night…

Special shout out to my beautiful meta, A, for hanging with/taking care of D, who’s still recovering from his painful af surgery, while I went to explore the dungeon. Finally! ♥️

Oh and I had dinner with MVS and his wife, and met his kids. He has met my husband and kids. He and A have their own relationship as well. I’m just loving this kitchen table poly thing we have going on.


About last night: Independence Day edition

Nick & Nancy came over around 7. We grilled and hung out on the deck until it was dark enough for fireworks. Then the four of us + Jackson headed out to the front yard where the neighbors were already out doing their thing.

There were an insane amount of fireworks – like professional level shit. It was glorious (though Bismark certainly didn’t think so). I didn’t take many pics, because nobody wants to see my shitty iPhone firework pics lol. Plus we were busy having fun.

Here are two:

Oh and the one I took of our frenemy neighbors who decided to have a big party.

That’s not all the people who were there. At one point, the men started throwing fireworks at each other. For fuck’s sake. 🙄

Afterwards, N&N hung out for a few more hours. We had a lot to catch up on.