Spring is in the air.

We went for a walk around the neighborhood. The weather today was incredible.

We also went out for drinks:

And then took this growler to dinner with C&J where we talked about all the things. I love them so much.

The day started off a little messy, but ended well. I am thankful for my husband and our awesome friends. (And also Xanax.) I feel loved, and seen. So thankful. ❤️

About last night: Nick’s 35th birthday

First of all, why are my friends so young? I guess D and I are just young at heart?

Anyway…last night we joined Nick, Nancy, Jen, & AK, for a night out in The Grove.

First up: pizza and beer at Urban Research Brewery; except I didn’t have pizza or beer. I had caesar salad and water. Turns out beer is quite acidic, and need to take a break from acidic shit right now. The caesar was actually quite delicious, which is high praise, because I’m a bit of a caesar connoisseur nowadays. Haha.

Afterwards, we headed a couple blocks down to Recess STL, which is a big warehouse that’s been turned into an adult game bar. We played hockey, and threw footballs at bowling pins, which is way more fun (and frustrating) than it sounds. It was super crowded though, so we eventually bailed, and headed back out to O’Fallon, where we all live. We went to the neighborhood pub for more food and drink. It was a lot of fun, and I think we can now call Jen & AK actual friends, instead of just acquaintances.

I had three gin and tonics, and a few hits of weed off Nick’s vape throughout the night, so I was pretty lit by the time we got home, where I then smoked more weed, because duh. From what I can recall, the sex was amazing. 🤗

There’s a group pic too, but I don’t have it. We were cute though. You’ll just have to take my word for it.


We had a lot of fun last night. I have a feeling these two could end up being really good friends, and there is definitely chemistry. Gen X dudes just do it for me. And let’s not forget J: she’s a sexy, sexy bitch. Unf.

And now we will take a much needed break. We hit Project Ho hard. It has been a lot of fun, but also kind of exhausting. Don’t worry…we plan on resuming our activities after I’m all healed. In fact, there are already tentative plans.

This time next week I’ll be in surgery. I can’t wait to have my new boobs. D and I are both very excited. I’m a bit worried about my tattoos, but I can always redo them. I’m thinking maybe hearts this time. I’m going to buy some pasties and experiment. If I can’t have my nipples back, I might as well have fun with it, right?

About last night: SAD PROM

I was worried because the weather got bad (❄️❄️❄️) and I thought we were going to have to cancel. But my friends are hardcore and they got themselves here. We had a great time.

D and I decorated the house in streamers and balloons. It was hilariously bad. Then we waited, and of course I had to selfie.

When the friends started arriving, we posed for prom pics.

And then the drinking games started:

We played Never Have I Ever and Who’s Most Likely…

My cards:

There was slow dancing:

And lots of drinking…

And we crowned the prom king!

I enjoyed keeping it really small this time. It’s easier to hang out and get in quality time with just the core group of friends present. We did miss A&R though. And there is a bit of drama going on in our group that has me bummed, but it wouldn’t be prom without drama, right?

D and I didn’t fall asleep until around four. I’m dragging a bit today, but I’m not hungover at all. We’re going to lunch later. I love our day after the party lunches where we recap and gossip.

Happy Sunday!

Prom prep

– light cleaning. These are our best friends, so it can be a little messy.

– shopping for food and booze. I need some low carb snacks. And some prosecco!

– need to run to Target to buy a party game I found. “Never Have I Ever” the adult version. Should be fun.

– we’re moving a mattress upstairs to my study to create a sex room guest room. Lol.

– I found a dress in my closet I forgot I had that’s very flattering so right now I’m planning to wear that. I can’t find the bridesmaid dress. I must have donated it.

– I’m making a playlist on Apple music so it can play on the homepod.

– party starts at 7. There will be pics.

Get in the picture!

Me and the girl crush. Also named Jen.

We had a fabulous time tonight. I think this is the beginning of a fun friendship. ❤️

D and I had pre drinks at Charleville. We met Jen and Matt at Hamilton. Then we had after dinner drinks at Scottish Arms. She and I kissed and…swoon. Omg!! And then there was a mini make out swap session before we parted ways. It was all so hot and fun and perfect. Can’t wait for next time. Shit is gonna get real.

Between these two and C&J…I feel like we are finally friends with couples we truly mesh with. ❤️