What an absolutely fabulous weekend. ♥️
We started celebrating last night with dinner and gift exchange.
I finally got to wear my new dress:
D bought me the most amazing necklace. I love, love, love it.
Instead of a card, I got a PowerPoint slide, and it may be the best thing he’s ever given me.
Dinner was amazing.
I even allowed myself to have dessert – a keto ice cream bar.
I have this fuschia dress covered in black hearts that I wore on Valentine’s Day last year. I put it on last night with the intention of wearing it on my date, but NOPE! It was too big. As much as I love that dress, that felt really fucking good!
Oh and I made my 1% loss this week. Woo!!
Speaking of date night, it was fabulous. We talked and talked and suddenly it was almost midnight. And there was SO MUCH TEQUILA. I’m hungover af – like seriously on the struggle bus – but no regrets.
TGIF. Looking forward to spending Vday weekend with my family. I hope D’s second present gets delivered soon. 😳
We rang in the new year with our besties.
I ♥️ them.
And we did a blind champagne tasting.
Woo – fucking finally.
Obviously, I recognize that nothing is going to change tomorrow, but I’ve always been that person who considers the new year to be a fresh start. I’m currently super motivated about some goals that I have.
I also enjoy reflecting on the prior year, and always find myself doing one of these year in review posts on NYE. I haven’t had a crazy ass year like this since 2012. In 2012, I was going through a messy divorce, and was diagnosed with breast cancer. I often refer to it as the worst and best year of my life, because it is also the year that D and I became a couple, and, despite everything, we had a lot of fun together. 2012 was a year of change.
I feel similarly about 2020. Lots of change this year, and not all of it has been bad. I received my MBC diagnosis in February, which obviously drastically changed our lives. We made a lot of plans that were then made moot in March when the pandemic started. While we had to put a lot of stuff on hold (like our travel plans), we started living our lives on fast forward. We began seizing opportunities for new adventures/experiences. MBC definitely resulted in D and I leveling up our relationship. Our communication game is on point. I feel closer to him than ever before. We’ve stopped planning for the distant future and started planning for right now. It has been a game changer in a lot of ways.
Another huge change was merging my firm. I felt stuck for so many years with the weight of the law firm resting upon my shoulders, and I had convinced myself there was no escape. Getting out of that situation felt impossibly difficult, and I felt like I was drowning every single day. I was pretty miserable; drinking too much to cope with the stress, lashing out at others because I felt trapped. I am so grateful to find myself where I am now. It’s like a giant boulder has been lifted off my shoulders. I am beyond pleased to no longer be the managing partner. I am so grateful to have a colleague who is so hard working and supportive. I am thankful to my husband for listening to years of my complaining and pushing me to make this happen. I couldn’t have done this without his support. I feel like I can breathe again.
I’m excited to see what adventures 2021 will bring. Every day is a gift – even the bad ones.
Happy new year!
I told you it was going to be bad. 😂