Happy birthday to J ❤️

It’s almost 4 pm, and I’m just starting to feel functional after having way too much fun last night.

This bottle of tequila was unopened when we arrived. Enough said.

And then also:

We did a pizza tasting. We got pizzas from 8 different places and did the usual blind tasting; then ranked our results. It was really fun, and interesting to see who liked what without having any preconceived notions.

There were also fancy desserts:

We continue to talk about the Napa trip we’ve been wanting to take. Though who knows when we will be able to make that happen given everything. *sigh* I’m really hoping to travel again in 2021. I don’t have time to waste!

Anyhoo – it was another super fun night with our besties. I’m excited for the Halloween party! It will be tiny this year, with just six people instead of the usual 30-40, but I honestly think it will be more fun that way.

I’m off to read. My friend wrote another book, and I’m really enjoying it.


the Sunday situation

I have had an awful headache all freaking day. I hope it’s gone when I wake up tomorrow.

I wasted the entire weekend. I did zero work. I mean…I did like housework, but no legal work. Whatever. Idgaf.

The calendar for the upcoming week is a fucking shit show: multiple court dockets per day and plans almost every night. Dis-motherfucking-like.

I got to see C today, and we opened our Secret Elf gifts. My lady fucking nailed it. C’s did too. We got lucky.


We put up the other two Christmas trees tonight, though one needs the lights replaced, so it’s not yet decorated. But here are the two that are finished:

And then this cuteness happened at bedtime:

Oh and I almost forgot: we finished TNG tonight. I’m still processing it, but I thought the last episode was great, and I’m sad that it’s over. However, I’m looking forward to re-watching the movies, and also checking out the other series. Oh and the new Picard series, of course.

I am having a bad body image day. It doesn’t help that I haven’t exercised in over a week. Gotta get back to it starting tomorrow.

While at the grocery store tonight, some random dude walked up and asked me if I wanted a carrot. I was like no thanks, and he was like are you sure. I’m like yep I’m good, but thank you. Then he walked away. D says he was just looking for an excuse to talk to me. I mean…okay, but that’s a fucking strange approach, bro.

I’ve given up on trying to understand people.

I’ve been in a weird mood all day. Everything feels like a lot. This headache definitely hasn’t helped.

about last night: a change of plans

Our original plan was to stay in, make a big Italian dinner, and watch movies. But what I love about kid-free, no plan weekends is how they can turn into anything we want; whatever strikes our fancy. 💙

We went on our planned run. I ran/walked almost three miles around the neighborhood. It was hard, because it had been a while, but it was good. Running always makes me feel better. And the weather!! 😍

After we got all cleaned up, D suggested we go to the West County Mall. He wanted to go to the Apple store to buy a new iPad. I was, of course, up for shopping. I hadn’t been to that mall in ages. I lived right by it for several years, in what feels like another life. It’s still just as crowded as ever, and is certainly in no danger of shutting down, like others in the area have.

D got his new iPad. I’ve gotta say: I hate the Apple store. It’s fucking chaos…always. I shouldn’t have to wait 30 minutes to spend $1500. Jesus fucking Christ. But the nice sales lady randomly told me I was beautiful, so that kind of made up for it. Later, D was like, “You are the only person I know who has strangers telling you how beautiful you are. She’s right though. You are beautiful.” ☺️☺️☺️

We then walked around the mall, and I bought two dresses. I was sad because this dress was not in my size, and it is such a jenn dress!!

But I went online and ordered it pretty much immediately. Haha. So it should be here soon. And I left with two other super cute dresses, which you’ll be seeing this week.

That’s tweed, btw. I LOVE tweed.

At this point, we were starving from the run, and didn’t want to have to go grocery shopping. So we decided to go out for dinner. D found a nearby Mexican spot that had excellent reviews, and so we headed over. I love Mexican, so I was fucking pumped.

I got a sparkling margarita while we waited on our table, and it was extra af. Totally amazing!!

The food was even better.

Blurry pic of delicious fajitas featuring steak, shrimp, scallops, and bacon. I cannot wait to have the leftovers for lunch! Oh and their tamales were fucking legit!! As were the chips and salsa. We will def be going back.

We went home and immediately started up some sexy times. A video was made. I kind of miss having a porn blog over on Tumblr where I could put that stuff. D and I tried to post a pic over there recently, and it got flagged immediately. Lol.

D (reluctantly) promised me we could watch Midsommar, and so we did.

This is artsy horror. D HATED it, which I fully expected. I didn’t hate it, but it was too long, and a bit tedious. It was a fucking trip: super weird, and quite disturbing overall.

Then we watched two episodes of TNG. Both of them kind of sucked. It was a Riker episode followed by a Beverly episode. The latter was particularly bad.

Then it was bed time. I had no problems falling asleep.

We turned the clocks back this morning. Yay for an extra hour of weekend!! It goes so fast.

Today we plan to do more of whatever the fuck strikes our fancy. Better get to it!!